March 20, 2023 – Season of Growth – 2010 Flames – 2022-2023
In a season that didn’t know when to quit, it suited the 2010 Flames (The 2 Team) just fine. Because this team doesn’t know how to quit.
Back on September 9, 2022 the Flames played their first game of the new season. Jacob St. Pierre scored the first goal of the season on the power play, in a 2-1 loss. Teddy Beal and Sean McGee assisted on the season opening goal. 190 days later, fall had come and gone, winter was almost completed, it was literally a new year, and the 2010 Flames played their last game of the season. They lost, 4-2 in Regionals. Ian Kaveney scored the final goal of the season, on the power play. Teddy Beal and Jaden Booth assisted on the season closing goal.
Can you believe that this team, this hockey family, was together pursuing the same goals for more than 190 days? And you wonder why I call it our hockey family. That’s exactly what it becomes. Especially when good people surround us at every sheet of ice we freeze next too. It’s a special bond for sure. Kids see their schoolmates at school for 180 days a school year at most. These hockey players see each other almost as much, and probably spend more quality time together than they do with their schoolmates.
What’s even better is the galvanization of the team under the pressure of competition, overcoming adversity, and goal orientated achievements. Galvanization is a process used to protect metal from corrosion or undermining. Undermining means to weaken or ruin by degrees. I would apply the same exact phrases to what it means to become a hockey family, season after season. A process to protect and strengthen as to offset weakening and ruin. That is the 2010 Flames team. The 2010 Flames hockey family.
A Season of Growth – I picked this title for the obvious reasons that you might think of. Like the kids growing closer together, or the kids actually physically growing, or even becoming better players along the way. I also chose this title because growth doesn’t happen independent of other seasons. Neither does growth happen disconnected from the people in the program that foster the atmosphere for optimal growth. This is critical stuff.
Why do I think it is so critical? While I would never be the guy to shoot down an athlete’s dreams of the NHL or a professional career. I think we all know what the most likely hockey pool most of our players will end up being a part of, if they continue to pursue hockey. That is not a bad thing.
While it is true that the furtherance of a playing career might not be garnered at this age. It is entirely possible, however that a player this age gets blown out of their sport by a miserable experience for a season. Imagine loving a sport, the game, and in one season wanting never to play it again. That just should not happen to kids.
I am not a harbinger of doom and gloom but this latter scenario plays out way, way too often in sports. And almost always the reason it happens is fully on the shoulders of the parents or the coaches. Agendas that are solely focused on one players or a few players are not good for the entirety of a team. Also destructive is the coach that pursues wins like their livelihood depends on it. These teams usually end up with a fragmented roster that crushed the riches of roster into mere ags. I have a son that quit baseball because of this very real experience.
Maybe our kids go on to play high school hockey and that ends up being the highest level they play. Maybe others play Varsity hockey in college while getting their degree, or even play ACHA hockey. The American College Hockey Association (ACHA) is the fastest growing body of hockey in North America. Perhaps some players will go on to play professionally overseas or in North America.
In each of the cases above it is highly likely that the players who achieve the highest level of hockey will be noticed regardless of where they play. Not only that, the players that put the most time into their passion outside of their team workouts and games will be the ones most likely to go on to higher levels. It’s definitely not based on the most games played, or even at what level at this age.
If that were true the 1980 US Olympic Hockey Team would not have blown open the doors for kids from the US to play hockey at the highest levels. Most of that team played way less youth hockey than any of our kids do today. But I bet, on the average, that they played with more love for the game and for a lot more hours. They played because they had so much fun being kids playing a game. This was true of other sports too.
The atmosphere those kids played in was not shaped by parental guidance or coaching agenda. It was shaped by kids at play, loving every minute of it. They played with their friends for hours on end. I see it like this, the more you play without being coached, the better you will be. Not only that, the love for the game bolstered by the pure joy of being a kid at play will be with you always.
When I was growing up, I had become a good enough player to play either baseball or basketball in college. I loved the coaches I had along the way but I was probably the least coached kid I knew. We just didn’t have the money to play sports outside of the town teams or school teams. So, my world outside of school, church, and family meals was sports, all of them. In the yard. At a court anywhere I could find one. On an open field anywhere, pastures included. I spent more hours playing sports by myself than anyone I knew.
I joke with my Mom that we never left the house when we were kids, which is more true than it isn’t. So, I played. I threw balls to myself, baseballs, footballs, basketballs, volleyballs, tennis balls, soccer balls, you name it. I hit them. I chased them. I caught them. I ran with them. I bounced them. I threw rocks for accuracy. I hit rocks with a bat to see if I could hit a batted rock exactly where I wanted that rock to go. I honed my skills constantly. Usually by myself.
I had zero interest in going to college, even if sports were the reason I would be there. While my brother and I, along with other friends, were recruited to go play baseball for this team, or that team, we never left our friends. Seriously, I never even considered it. Of note, I also played way more baseball and basketball along with hockey, football, volleyball and tennis outside of any organized sports.
The point is this, if a kid is having the best time possible doing what they love to do, alongside people they love being around, isn’t that the best place to learn. I mean, maybe at age 15 or 16 when a kid wants to focus on one sport or start to think about specializing, that might be different. But for the child athlete, shouldn’t joy forever be synonymous with the sport you play. If you find that special place, then shoot for the stars, laughing all the way.
Season of Growth – September – 2010 Flames – Hockey Family
- September games: 4.
- September record: 1-2-1.
- Goals for: 13.
- Goals against: 14.
The season started way too early, as I say every year, but I am slow to change. Or to accept change. The season started on a slow pace that went away quickly and stayed for the remainder of the season. We had our team. A new team, as four players had moved up to the ‘1 Team’. But the nature of Coach Nick’s teams are based on effort, accountability to one another, treating each other with respect, and teamwork on and off the ice.
It didn’t take too long for the players to buy in. Parents, well we are adults (in age at least) and we reserve the right to take four months before introducing ourselves. I say this in fun, as I am probably the worst at this. Meanwhile my wife knows the newcomer’s extended families before I even know who is on the roster.
Season of Growth – October – 2010 Flames – Hockey Family
- October games: 9.
- October record: 6-2-1.
- Goals for: 46.
- Goals against: 20.
- 1 shutout loss.
- 1 shutout win.
October was a strange month. Not because of Columbus Day or because of Halloween. It was odd because of Tiers. The 2010 Flames played a pair of GSL T4 games, winning by a combined score of 23-2 (Sounds like New Canaan, CT). Then as we moved up to GSL T3 we played the Concord Elite team and the Flames were shutout, 5-0. Then Concord moved up to GSL T2. So, we did not actually end up playing a GSL T3 team until after Veteran’s Day (that’s in November).
Season of Growth – November – 2010 Flames – Hockey Family
- November games: 13.
- November record: 8-3-2.
- Goals for: 70.
- Goals against: 30.
- CAN/AM Bronze Medal – Lake Placid, NY.
- Turkey Shootout Champs.
- 2 shutout wins.
- Happy Thanksgiving!
November was a tournament month. The 2010 Flames played 13 games in the month, and 9 of them were in tournament play. It was such a fun month of hockey. How can anyone forget going to Lake Placid and skating on the Olympic Rink? Of course the kids were able to play on the 1980 Rink. The weather was above perfect for November. What a special trip. Winning their last game of the trip to secure the Bronze Medal was nothing short of awesome!
The 2010 Flames won the Turkey Shootout, going 5-0. They played some lesser competition but played really well in the tighter games and earned the Championship on the ice.
Season of Growth – December – 2010 Flames – Hockey Family
- December games: 11.
- December record: 6-5-0.
- Goals for: 39.
- Goals against: 29.
- Winter Classic Finalists.
- 1 shutout loss.
- 1 shutout win.
- Merry Christmas!
As December blew in, the 2010 Flames were knocked down a few pegs after winning some hardware in November. They started the month by losing 4 of their first 5 games, before beating the Islanders (who they lost to in September). Then they got crushed by the 2011 Flames. They bounced back on Christmas Eve by finally overcoming the Monarchs. They shared Secret Santa gifts and loved every second of it.
The 2010 Flames finished December and 2022 by winning three straight games in the Winter Classic, including a 3-1 win over Presque Isle, ME on New Year’s Eve.
Season of Growth – January – 2010 Flames – Hockey Family
- January games: 13.
- January record: 7-4-2.
- Goals for: 35.
- Goals against: 33.
- Winter Classic Champions (X2).
- 1 shutout win.
- Happy New Year!
- Shocked the 2011 Flames, 3-2.
On New Year’s Day the 2010 Flames won their second straight Winter Classic Championship, in Overtime! It was a great game against the Monarchs with both teams playing well. You can see that story here.
“Cooper Lazzaro alertly scooped up a pass intended for an opposing forward at center ice. Cooper worked to his right, skating through a stick check on his way into the O-zone and the right circle. Another defender was already back but Cooper’s shot was away before the defensive player could get to him. The defender created a bit of a screen and Lazzaro’s shot was perfect. The puck rose quickly and hit the net in the top corner, far side, under the bar, where Grandpa hides the candy that is saved for the most special of occasions. Lazzaro unassisted, overtime, Championship game-winner, 2-1. Back to Back Champs!”
“Will and Travis – You don’t win Titles without these two. You just don’t. Great job guys! You may have been underrated in this tournament because of the offensive zone pressure and possession time of the entire team. But you were huge when needed! 3 goals allowed in 4+ Tournament games is not possible without your contributions.
Plus, Travis told me that it’s pretty fun to be swarmed by the team on the ice. The pictures back that up!”
With the end of December tournament and a full January schedule, the Flames played 17 games in 31 days. They also had 8 practices during this time. 25 hockey family gatherings for team events in 31 days. Ya, it’s critical that the atmosphere the team operates in be a nurturing one for the kids.
Season of Growth – February – 2010 Flames – Hockey Family
- February games: 14.
- February record: 7-5-2.
- Goals for: 46.
- Goals against: 33.
- 1 shutout loss.
- 4 shutout wins.
- Only played 5 games in Manchester, NH out of 14 games.
- Played last home game of the season at West Side Arena on Feb. 18th.
- Outscored opponents 18-9 in 3rd periods.
- Took 64 penalties.
February was a physical month on the ice. Every team playing for the playoff spots, or at least playing better than they did in the first half of the season. I do believe that the weight of the 2010 Flames schedule started to take its toll. In January the Flames played 10 of their 13 games in NH. In February, they played on the road all month even though some of those games were in NH, it was a lot of driving. Then add the fact that the 14 games were played in a span of 23 days. That’s heavy.
Below are pictures from February where my hockey loves all collided and overlapped. Give and take. Hockey family all around to help carry the load. I am busy, but so very blessed. Thank you.
Season of Growth – March – 2010 Flames – Hockey Family
- March games: 10.
- March record: 4-5-1.
- Goals for: 24.
- Goals against: 30.
- 2 shutout losses.
- Exactly 0 games played in the state of NH.
- Played at rinks 43 miles away, 66 miles away, 76 miles away, 77 miles away, and 48 miles away from West Side Arena.
- Every game was a playoff game.
- Reached the Final 4 of the FED.
- Reached the Final 4 of GSL T3.
- One of three teams to leave Regionals with a winning record.
- 10 games played in 15 days, all on the road, all against playoff teams.
The playoff schedules this year were certainly less travel-friendly than in other seasons, but the 2010 Flames were still amazing! Even in the losses the Flames played so well. The team’s “limiting steps” still get in the way, but that is part of growth. Fail better the next time. It’s okay. Failure is a part of life, but shouldn’t be a defining part of life. In a season of growth, the 2010 Flames absolutely grew! I look forward to more growth. I look more 2010 Flames Hockey.
And, of course, I look forward to more time with our hockey family. I look forward to watching our kids having the times of their lives, alongside friends from near and far. The hockey family is a special dynamic, but it’s not the same everywhere. Nor is it the same every season. I have personally witnessed a loving, nurturing, fun-loving hockey dynamic change to toxic and destructive in one off-season all because a few adults wanted to “WIN” more.
Some families “took their kids talents to South Beach”. Sorry, I got off track. I mean, they left to pursue the greener grass of ‘better competition’ only to beg readmittance a season later because of how miserable their kids were. Coaches changed. It was a train-wreck.
What’s worse is that the damage was done primarily to the kids. THE KIDS! Are you kidding me?!?! The KIDS ARE THE REASON the sport is even offered. I mean, come on! It IS NOT about the Coaches (even though we love ours). It IS NOT about the parents or their agendas. Offer encouragement and support, love always. And if you find your kid playing a sport they love in an environment that they literally cannot get enough of, then stay out of the way. If our kids go to the NHL or never even tryout for high school hockey, but love every minute of youth hockey, there is nothing wrong with that. IT’S ALL ABOUT THE KIDS.
Season of Growth – 2022-2023 – 2010 Flames – Hockey Family
- Total games: 74.
- Total record: 39-26-9.
- Goals for: 273.
- Goals against: 189.
- 5 shutout losses.
- 9 shutout wins.
- 1 OT Winner.
- 1 Bronze Medal.
- 2 Tournament Championships.
- 2 Final 4 appearances.
- Played in the USA Hockey Tier 3 New England Regionals.
- Most dominant period of play: The second period, where the Flames outscored opponents, 97-59.
- Worst period of play: The first period, where the Flames outscored opponents, 85-74, but after Thanksgiving that ratio read like this: Flames 41 goals, Opponents 58 goals.
- Final 16 games were played away from West Side Arena.
- Incredible plays: Countless.
- Adversities overcome: Countless.
- Awesome player and team achievements, big and small: Countless.
- Incredible memories made playing for the same logo: Countless.
- Smiles and celebrations: Countless and priceless alike.
- Realizing you were smiling throughout the entire season: Priceless.
Obviously, I am a stat geek. I have been since I first learned to score a baseball game on a scorecard when I was 5. Numbers have their place, but they aren’t everything. But here’s something to think about when it comes to games, winning, and kids. If I, or we, count so many categories listed above as ‘priceless’ or ‘countless’ and we count wins at 39, then what should this all be about? A season of growth is all about the kids.
2010 Flames 2022-2023 Roster
00 – Will Rosenbeck – Goalie
02 – Ian Kaveney – Forward
06 – Teddy Beal – Forward
07 – Gavin Petrie – Forward
09 – Jordan Hawkes – Forward
10 – Brody Phensysouvanh – Defense
14 – Sean McGee – Forward (Fill-in Defense)
20 – Jacob St. Pierre – Defense (PT Forward)
22 – Chase Giampa – Forward
24 – Jaden Booth – Defense
31 – Travis Ingalls – Goalie
33 – Lucas Ouellette – Forward
37 – Cooper Lazzaro – Defense
63 – Andy Soucy – Forward
86 – Garrett Warren – Forward
87 – Caleb Powers – Defense
91 – Logan McCain – Defense
First, Thank you. Coach Nick. Coach Dave. Coach Adam. Coach Johnny. Second, Thank you. Always, Thank you.
The top three pictures are from September. The bottom three are from March. I do believe the kids have grown.
In a story that I can only describe as “only mildly interesting news“. Through the lens of my camera, and with some help of other fellow stalkers (I belong to an aging group known as Stalkers in Rockers, but that’s not important right now) we have uncovered the inspiration for the McCain “Victory” Celebration. After months of investigation the 2010 Flames Super Fan was finally spotted at Regionals of all places. So glad we went.
You can find more 2010 Flames material in these pieces, here. 2010 Manchester Flames.
The thoughts and opinions expressed here are those of the individual contributors, mostly mine, and do not necessarily reflect the views of the schools, coaches, players, or characters listed in any of these blog posts. Or, maybe they do, but you would have to ask them directly.
Either way, “It’s a great day for hockey” ~ the late “Badger” Bob Johnson.